March 06, 2017
Ladies this one is especially for YOU. Let’s face it women are creatures who love to be wooed, courted, romanced, and, even in this day and age, taken out on a date. Once upon a time men were chivalrous and knew the fine art of "how to take a woman out." With the rise of technology, this form of courtship has sadly faded.
We hear time and time again the popular date of choice is "Hey let’s meet for coffee." HOLD THE PHONE! Where does it say anywhere that meeting at your local Starbucks equals a romantic first date?! We get the safety factor of meeting in a public setting, but COME ON guys – put some effort into your date plans!
Let’s break it down:
A For Effort- men that put care and effort into planning dates are usually the ones that put care and effort into dating YOU. A guy that just takes you out for coffee, may be jaded – and simply going out on too many first dates to really feel that he needs to put any more effort forth. Or maybe he simply just doesn’t care. Either way, aren’t you worth more than that Macchiato?
Cheap- you don’t have to spend your paycheck just to take someone out, but you DO need to put forth at least some effort (see above) into being creative and romantic. Wouldn’t you rather have an intimate dinner or a walk on the beach over hanging out with a bunch of people on their laptops sipping a three dollar Venti?
The Millennial Curse- people say that those under thirty wants to have sex first before they even consider going out on a real date with someone. Some think that the younger generation is all about short attention spans and convenience. We disagree. Just because our Smart Phones are glued to our hands doesn’t mean we don’t know how to treat a woman the way she deserves to be treated – ESPECIALLY when courting her! Ladies, what do you think? Screw before dating, or be courted first? Coffee house says "I don’t need to be courted."
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March 02, 2017
Your ex has left you, you’re a total wreck, you are desperate to get your ex back. So what do you do?? Here are some things to NEVER EVER do to try to get your beloved back. Remember, you broke up for a reason and most often getting back together simply does not work, especially if you’re down this:
The Trap – The absolute worst thing you can do is to trap a person simply because you can’t let go. Women- if you think having a baby is going to make him come back to you, you got another thing coming! Men- if you think impregnating a woman is going to save your relationship, you are in the Land of Denial. Creating life should never be taken lightly.
Stalking – Calling ten times a day, leaving voicemails crying and begging, posting on their Facebook wall, watching them from your car while they work. One word: CREEPY. Or two words: RESTRAINING ORDER.
Family- you may have had a great relationship with your ex’s family but showing up at their door crying a river and asking them to help you is big NO-NO. This is no one’s business but yours and your ex.
Getting your heart broken is one of the hardest things to go through. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Better to be single and happy then to be in a damaging relationship. There is someone for everyone! We are here to help YOU so stop trying and start healing! Whether it’s to fix your damaged relationship or move on to a new one. Set up your consult TODAY just click this link…
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March 13, 2017
"The dog ate my homework." "I have a stomach ache." "No, really there’s no school today!" We’ve all used these excuses when we were young and a lot of people STILL use excuses as adults in the world of dating. There are the exceptions when it comes to getting out of a bad date, but when it comes to the important things like planning, transportation, paying etc. – leave those excuses for the kiddos.
"Oh no I forgot my wallet!" – Wait, so you’re saying you are going out on a date, trying to fall in love and you just happen to "forget" your wallet? There are no excuses for using this excuse! You are in one word: CHEAP. Bye, Felicia!
"Can you pick me up, I don’t have a car or a license?" – We understand that this can be a real issue. However, in the world of Uber and Lyft or the good old fashioned cab, there is zero excuse to ask your date to come pick you up and be your chauffeur all night. Ladies, once again this especially is a HUGE no-no if a man asks you to pick him up. Besides, it’s just not safe.
"I’m new in town, can you pick where to go on our date?" – Google, ever hear of it? Effort is key when it comes to dating. Ladies, the man should be planning the date PERIOD. If you’re a same sex couple it’s whomever asked who out. With the internet, smart phones, hell even the local library readily available there’s no excuse to not figure something out.
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